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Mental Health Awareness Week
This week, independent coffee shops in Southampton are helping to raise awareness of No Limits and our mental health support.
Each year, we support over 5,000 local young people with their mental health, with ages ranging from 5 years old to 25. Our free services include counselling, social prescribing, A&E youth workers, out-of-hours crisis services and drop-in support available for over 40 hours each week, with no need for an appointment.
Scroll down to see how you can help, as well as our mental health tips and a chance to win a free coffee!
“I am so grateful to No Limits for being there when I needed someone to hear me out and not make me feel silly. The No Limits youth worker did that and she also helped me to see things differently. I wouldn’t be here without her.”
Help No Limits to support young people in your community
This year’s theme for Mental Health Awareness Week (12th – 18th May) is ‘community’, so we are fundraising to be able to continue supporting young people in our community with their mental health and wellbeing. We also want to prevent mental health problems from developing, so our coffee shop partners are helping us to get our mental health tips to as many people as possible.
The need amongst local young people is increasing. The best way that you can help them this week is by donating to No Limits, ensuring that our trained mental health workers are able to continue giving high quality help that changes and saves the lives of young people across Southampton, Hampshire, Portsmouth and the Isle of Wight.

How your donations could help
You can donate any amount you want and it’ll all make a difference, but here are some examples of what different amounts might be used for:
£5 could support the printing of our mental health resources, meaning that young people can start to help themselves before their issues worsen.
£10 could enable an emergency department youth worker to support a young person that has presented at A&E in crisis.
£25 could see a young person struggling with their mental health get to talk to a counsellor in a safe, confidential space.
Donate now

Tips for looking after your mental health
Talking is important
The best thing you can do for your mental health and is talking to people you trust when you need support. It’s easy to bottle things up and keep worries to yourself, but letting negative thoughts stew just makes them worse.
Talk to someone close to you, like a friend, family member, teacher or manager and do it in a place where you feel comfortable.
If you’re not sure how to start, phrases like ‘I haven’t been feeling like myself lately’ and ‘I’m finding things hard at the moment’ can help you get going.
Small steps are still steps
If you’re feeling low, anxious or stressed, don’t force yourself to do things that won’t make you feel good or, beat yourself up for not being able to do everything you normally would. Take each thing as it comes and be kind to yourself. Think about how you would treat someone else feeling how you are.
Remember, small steps are still steps and you’re doing the best you can.
Planning can help
Feeling overwhelmed or not sure what to do? Making an action plan can help us sort out what’s in our minds and work out what to do next. Some things to consider and write down are:
– What the issue is
– The outcome you want to achieve
– Who can you talk to to get support
– What you can do to support yourself
– How others can help
– What your next step needs to be
Practise self-care
Being kind to ourselves isn’t always easy or at the forefront of our minds, but it’s really important for our wellbeing. If there is a lot going round in your head, doing calming, mind-clearing things can take some of the weight off.
Having a bath or shower can be good for a mental reset, while exercising can help us let off some steam. Quiet activities like mindfulness, calm colouring or even just sitting on the sofa with a cup of tea can help a lot.
Professional support
Professional support is always there for you. If you haven’t been feeling good for a while, or are really struggling, it’s a good idea to speak to someone. This could be a mental health organisation where you will be able to talk about how you’re feeling with a trained professional who will be able to offer support and advice, or your GP, who will be able to refer you on to specialist services and prescribe medication if you are 18 or over. Many national charities also have 24 hour helplines that you can use if you are in crisis.

Don’t forget to breathe
Practising a breathing technique can help if we are stressed or anxious. By following a breathing technique, you are forcing your breathing to slow down, which gets more oxygen into your lungs and lowers your heart rate, helping you to feel calmer.
Square breathing
Start by breathing in and follow round the square until you start to feel relaxed.
Five finger breathing
Slowly trace round each of the fingers on one hand with a finger from the other. Breathe in on the way up the finger and breathe out on the way down.
Find more mental health information and tips in our online resources
Take me thereOur coffee shop supporters
Thank you to Mettricks, The Nest, Happy Bean and Retro for helping us to spread the word about Mental Health Awareness Week and the vital support we give to young people in our community.

Win a free coffee!
To celebrate community, this week, you can win a free coffee from one of our participating stores!
All you have to do is take a picture of your No Limits coffee cup, or No Limits wallet card if you are sitting in, and tag No Limits (@nolimitshelp) and the shop you bought your coffee from in your post on Instagram or Facebook.
The winner will be chosen randomly and contacted the week beginning 19th May.
Good luck!
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We offer services to young people who live in Southampton, Hampshire, Portsmouth and the Isle of Wight. For information about similar services local to you, please visit Find help | Youth Access. Youth Access is the umbrella body for organisations like No Limits and you can search here for a local organisation that can help you.
We offer services to young people who live in Southampton, Hampshire, Portsmouth and the Isle of Wight. For information about similar services local to you, please visit Find help | Youth Access. Youth Access is the umbrella body for organisations like No Limits and you can search here for a local organisation that can help you.
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